Thursday, December 15, 2011

Friends.Lovers.Marriage


I don't really have the details of their love story. I just know they were classmates in high school but romance blooomed when they were in college. I remember one night when I was in 1st year college (I think?) when kuya told me he already has a girlfriend, then introduced her to me. I did'nt know what to say, I just said Hi.
Ate Romerlyn, (honestly I'm still shy of calling her Ate but now I really have to practice) is as far as I am concerned Kuya's first girlfriend (any violent reaction?). Without realizing it, she became part of our family's life. From always being there for birthdays, fiesta, Christmas, christenings, etc. to attending simple family dinners. My brothers revelation years ago about him having a girlfriend was so sudden I was not given a chance to hate or love or approve or object. I just accepted it as I would when we'd have a new neighbor. I get shy with talking to her so we end-up not talking with each other but we became textmates. I'd be shy calling her ate or as her name so I end-up just saying "Hi" as a greeting. With her constant presence, I became comfortable with her (my shyness was reduced to 97%). Until the time came, when I'd choose her side over my brother. I am actually happy that kuya is going to marry her, not any other girl (this time I'll object) heheheeh.  For what it's worth, thank you Ate for the patience and love you gave to Kuya. He is lovable but he ain't easy to love.

Sure they had their ups and downs but they manged to keep it together and survived 8 years with each other. And after the roller-coaster ride, finally they are one their way to the finish line which takes place on February 15, 2012 at Basilica Church. Congratulations to the both of you!

But before that, last August 6 was the formal pamamanhikan attended by the family.  Where both of them discussed their wedding plans to the family from both sides. It was a fun occassion, we laughed a lot, talked a lot and ate a lot. See below for the sumptuous dishes served.

lechon!

palabok

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my favorite! nalimutan ko lang tawag nito :p

cake!


ahh... hmmm..

Excited for the Pink theme wedding!



PS: I was touched when they made me the Maid-of-Honor. Was actually expecting to be one of the bridesmaids. Well at least I have enough time to lose all the fats for the big day!  I am so excited I already booked a flight for the wedding! Hoping my 5 day Vacation Leave will be approved. :)

From my first blog, my ever supportive best cousin/sister posted this heart warming comment:



SWEET.. (^_^)

Bahi is ♥

Bahi, Garchitorena Port

 
t10

Bahi, Garchitorena is the hometown of one of my best friends, Christine (I call her Tin or t10). T10 and I have been friends since 2nd year high school. Among our group of friends, she is usually the one I watch movies with, share stories about the anime we are currently watching, eat fries and coke float at McDonald, stroll around downtown Naga just for the heck of it. And she's been inviting me to got to Bahi to spend a summer vacation or experience fiesta since high school, only I was not permitted to go (sad face). My mama would say its dangerous to go there because of NPAs (rebels, not No Permanent Addresses people) on the way to Garchitorena. So it was a common joke between us whenever she invites me that I may go there if an airport actually exists there.

After 11 years or so, both of us already finished college. Me currently in Manila doing stuff, heheeh. t10 is already a nurse (super proud!!). She asked me again, her words were: "Gusto mo ba sumama sa Bahi? Sabi ka na ngayon habang andito pa ako, baka next year o sa future hindi na pwede kasi busy na". Of course I said yes! I thought, I'm __ years old already, I have a job and independent enough that my mom will finally grant me the permission to go to Bahi. After a few discussion, and maybe because kuya is coming with me, we were finally permitted to go. Yey!

The initial plan was me and Tiny going to Bahi, but turned out to be me and my brother that ended up going(he's so excited he skipped work! haha). Spending even for only two days was enough to compensate the 11 years of curiosity about the place (because t10 never showed me a picture of Bahi, hmm... wonder why?). t10 texted me two or three days prior that she is going to Bahi ahead of us and will just wait for us there. I replied two days after saying waaaaaaaaaa I don't know how to get there!. Suddenly remembering, cellphone signal is really hard in Bahi (at least my signal na, sabi ni t10). So I sent her text messages asking for directions, etc. and called to make sure she gets my messages.

Bahi Barangay Fiesta is from August 7-8. Incidentally, August 6 is day of "pamamanhikan" of my brother (click here for details). A busy day, starting at  9am when I arrived home after 12 hours travel from manila the previous night. Did a lot of sleeping until 2pm. 4pm, we are on our way to Ate Romerlyn's house when I called t10 again to send me details on how to get to Bahi. Her text message was: "Doon ka na matulog sa Karangahan, andun si Manay Kai, tapos sakay ka ng van sa Queborac terminal ung byaheng 4am. Then sakay ka lantsa papuntang Bahi, hintayin kita sa port."

4am??? WTH?? I was like "Wala na bang ibang oras ng byahe?!!". I received no response. So I had no choice, Kuya and I decided to have a sleep-over at Ate Romerlyn's house, though my mama insisted that we'll just wake up early and travel early to the terminal. It was 10pm (Saturday) already and we have to catch the 4am van to Tamban or else. Since its fairly impossible to make the 4am van if we sleep at home (bus/Jeep trip from our place starts at around 5 am), we decided to stick to the plan.

The preparation was a mess. After a whopping 1 minute to pack, we went back to Ate Romerlyn's house and went to sleep at 12am to wake up at 2am. While waiting for a tricycle that will take us to Queborac Terminal at 3am, my brother asked "Ano mangyayari kapag di natin naabutan ung 4am na byahe ng van?". My answer was, "Uhmm.. we go home?" I had no idea what to do, so I was hoping against hope we make the 4am van. After a quick stop to a 24-hour convenience store (bought water and biscuit), we arrived at the terminal at exactly 4am (yey! we made it!) only to see a van going out of the terminal. Kuya asked a guy, "Manong pa-Tamban po ung van na kakaalis lang?" Manong said yes. We are dead. But manong said "Pa-Tamban kayo? Ayon ung sunod na byahe o" pointing to another van waiting in line. Hoooorrray!!! We immediately sat at the front seat, relaxed and ate the chiffon cake Ate Romerlyn prepared for us. Kuya asked again Manong (who is incidentally the driver of the van we are in, the dispatcher and kondoktor all-in-one) "Anong oras po alis nito? Derecho na po ba to sa Tamban port? May aabutan pa po ba tayong lantsa papuntang Bahi sa Tamban?" Manong replied with: "Pagnapuno alis na to, oo sa Tamban port na baba nyo at oo meron marami naman byahe dun". Clinging on Manong's words, we waited. At 4:30am we left the terminal to start the 1 and a half hour journey to Tamban port.

We reached Tamban Port at 6:30 am. Van fare was 100php each, got confused cause i thought it was 100php for two. We bought plastics for our cellphones and wallet (in case of emergency, better dry than wet). Then asked around what lantsa (big boat) is going to Bahi. After finding one, we hop on the boat and settled in (me inside the passenger deck, kuya at the roof top enjoying the view).


Tamban Port

I overheard from someone that the boat will leave at 8:30am. WHAT??!! To maintain the positive mood, i took a nap and woke up when its time to go. I thought travel time was 30 mins to 1 hour max, turned out to be two hours. If you are inside the passenger deck, two hours is equals a day. No air (soooo hot!) and nothing to do. But outside is the best, relaxing view, fresh air, ahhh heaven. Since I'm stuck in the passenger deck I had no choice but to endure and make the most of the two hour ride; by taking pictures of the passengers (without their permission) hehe.









At last! After an an adventure ride from the boat to the port (we had to transfer to a smaller boat to reach the port, surprisingly the less than 5 min ride to the port had more thrill than the 2 hour boat ride!

WE REACHED BAHI!!! YEY!!!!!
 
Welcome "mini" arc sa gilid ng daan. Cute.

Barangay Bahi, is a typical barangay in Camarines Sur.  Even though there's no Internet connection and cellphone signal is weak, I immediately felt at home. Bahi is just like Ragay, my mama's hometown. It brought me memories of my childhood vacation, spending summer with my cousins, nothing but nature nature and nature. I also get to experience perya and auditorium (sayawan, don't ask me why it's called such because i hav no idea) again!


sayawan
  

perya


Day 1: Spent the first half of day eating An-it (humongous crab), finished 2 and ate for two hours. Watched the parade at 4pm all the way to the Barangay's mini plaza. Took a lot of pictures, chilled with iskrambol (the original), watched Ms Bahi 2011 then went home to prepare for the dance.


An-it, my favorite!



Pretty majorettes
 
Little drummer boy
 

Kuya and T10

me and t10


Lost little drummer boy
 
Feeling turista



classic


Ang cute cute nila!


Little Majorettes


Kuya naghahanap ng signal


Barangay Chapel

DAY TWO: Got wasted the previous night so the three of us woke up at 1pm. haha. Ate lunch, went to t10's bukirin to look for santol, ended up with none (did not bring my camera again. pathetic). Spent the afternoon eating suman, arroyo and coke (c/o Pam) under the santol tree na walang bunga. Of course, wouldn't miss the beach. :) Rode a very short boat ride (less than 1 min) to a nearby islet (?) to swim. Had to ride a bangka because me and kuya can't swim (lol). Walked on the way home in the dark and crossed a river (luckily its just knee-deep) coz there's no boat to get us back. Got to mention that we crossed path with two gents who are actually on their way to another barangay to visit a lady. Sweeett... Totoo pala ung sinasabi na, tumatawid pa ng ilog makaakyat lang ng ligaw. :)

beach view


Kuya, t10 and Pam

Home-made suman and arroyo

yup, ganyan lang kalapit nagbangka pa kami para tumawid. haha

beach!

pink!

just another ordinary day




Initial plan was to hitch a ride with t10's relatives at 2am on our way back to Tamban Port so we decided to just wait until dawn, means no sleeping. Spent the night drinking and talking until we fell asleep under the santol tree and woke up at 4:30am. Geezzz.. Turns out the 2am trip did not push through. So we rushed preparing ourselves and our things and ran to the port to catch the 5am boat. We made it to the boat on time, this time all of us opt to stay on the roof top to enjoy the view.

Two versions of Bahi's Magnificent Sunrise





Around 5am
 


Around 6am
 

Lovin' the cold morning breeze

An-it Take out

View sa bubong ng lantsa

After a hearty breakfast in a local karenderya, we took a van bound to Naga and slept the whole duration of the ride. Spent some time in SM Naga to buy stuff, then headed home to prepare for my trip back to Manila.

This trip not only fulfilled the 11 year old plan we had back in high school. It was among others, the first trip with I had with my brother. =)

 My deepest gratitude to t10's parents (especially her mom) for the Ani-it we brought home and for making sure we are comfortable during our stay. She always make sure that I have all-i-can-eat An-it whenever I visit them and one or more to take home. To t10's friend, Pam, thanks for the laugh, drinks and being our tour guide.  I missed Manay Kai though (sad face). Of course I won't forget t10, I know we haven't been in touch lately, both of us busy with our chosen path but I'm really glad your my friend. I love you ganda, thank you for the experience. :) <drama mode>

Whew! There goes my first blog! Hope you had fun! :)

Foot Notes:
Ate Romerlyn is Kuya's fiancée.
Karangahan is a subdivision where t10's house is located in Calauag, Naga City

Manay Kai is t10's older sister.
Conversions in Tagalog are actually conversions in Bicol dialect, just translated them for the viewing public who are not familiar with our local dialect.







About the Author



Essay writing has been my favorite topic during my elementary and high school years. Writing was my main  outlet of emotions both good and bad, I'd rather write than talk about what I feel. Words are like wild grass, they are everywhere floating in my mind ready to be used.
I write about anything I can write about: lyrics of the music I hear, forwarded quotes from friends, cheer chants during intramurals, random comments I hear during the day, list of crushes , my favorite anime of the moment, etc. I usually keep a diary (for confidential facts such as details of my crushes and emotional outbursts) and a notebook (for the random thoughts, quotes and lyrics I share with my friends).
When I took an Engineering course in college, writing took a back seat. LITERALLY. As writing involves endless words to describe thoughts or ideas like art with no boundaries and limitations, Engineering was for me the exact opposite of it. In the world dominated by Math related subjects (tons of formulas to memorize, computations and the never-ending search for the value of x), the calculator became my best friend. Answers should be precise and direct to the point, else its automatically wrong. Numbers and formulas dominated the spaces in my mind. My used to be favorite topic became a nuisance and for me a waste of time. I hardly attend my English classes and its already feat for me if I manage to attend at least two sessions in a semester for SRA class back in college.
Today, I am in the IT industry where writing codes, monitoring servers and memorizing ip addresses, among others, occupy the majority of my day (the other one is sleeping). Writing is, again, not in list of my TO-DOs. Well I thought it was. With the never ending flow of daily emails that requires replies using English only for fomalities sake and of course bawal magtagalog, kumusta naman kung foreigner ang rereplayan mo? Pano naman un? Words became dominant (again) in my mind. Though it usually involves technical words/terms and more in the professional level, it has given me the one thing I neglected and eventually forgot that I am capable of. Writing. Yep, writing day-to-day email reunited me and my long lost passion.
So now I am starting a blog so I will not forget again.  This blog will be my notebook and will mainly consist of the places I go, food trips or cravings, people in my life and will meet, and other stuff that will catch my interest. My diary is still for private viewing only =). One thing that never changed though, I'd rather write than talk about what I feel. Means this blog will reflect me, as I am, if you still don't know me.
I just have one request, please be kind with your reactions and comments with whatever you will read in this blog. I am not an English major so my English is limited  and my knowledge of sentence construction is as low as the lowest level. Sometimes I'll use Tag-Lish because I usually get drown easily with the all the English stuff and lose the words. So please bear with me. =)

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